I can talk on and on about the immaculate love for it has been there in this world from its beginning. No matter what you do to make the love sound dirty, it would still be cleaner for everything one does in a war and love is fair. If I was asked, what is love to me? I would still be thinking hard to answer. Have I really felt and experienced love? Will my definitions for love be right? Well, if you thought those to be the questions that would be in my mind before I answered it, then you got me wrong. Before you answer such a question, it would be wise to understand the person asking you the question. If the question is asked by an interviewer, you could be creative to impress your audience; if asked by your Mother, whom you loved from the moment you were born, you might tend to be casual, but believe me, your Mom would love to hear the right words which would make her feel the best because by the time she is asking you this question, she would be weak and would definitely be looking out for few comforting words.
Now if you are to answer to a kid, you might have to keep in mind his age, the pros and cons of such a conversation. One thing that we can be sure is, the kid would one day figure out what love is, its up to us to decide if you should be the eye opener or not. The next is the person who actually completes the vicious circle of love. A person for whom the word Love was coined; your lover, who could be your boyfriend or girlfriend, husband or wife. When dealing with this class, you will require all the above combinations. There might be people who might say, just be yourself in love. Just tell her or him the words that comes in your mind. But I tell you, my boy or girl... Like you, the person in love has a heart and feelings which could be easily hurt. Unlike girls, guys dont forget hurtful words. They tend to have it buried deep inside which might erupt one day or the other. Being nice to your loved one not only keeps him or her happy, but adds few extra years to your life. Its like planning your happy life with words used wisely.
Every one in this world is born with flaws and merits. The combination of both would vary from person to person. When you talk about love, try to include both the pros and cons of a person in your definition thus making the other one know of two things; you appreciate both the flaws and merits of the person and second is that you are making him or her feel that he or she is not totally perfect and that you are special to him or her. Letting your loved one know about their weaknesses is not a mistake, but using the right words to convey your point is very important. Dont let yourself degraded nor try to be dominating in a relation. If you ever find your partner to be too dominating, do ensure that he or she understands your points no matter what. When it comes to girls, there are times when you need to listen to your man for your own safety and men who have intelligent girls to push you to success, do heed to her words. You dont loose anything in doing so, instead you gain his or her respect, trust and love.
Conclusion:- Do talk to your lover with utter care and patience. You won't loose anything by saying few good words, instead you would gain the respect, trust and love of your loved one. Your loved one is all that you have to hold on till the end. Do everything to keep him or her happy cos in the end, he or she is what you will have to hold on.
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